I have a new refugee site up now that's not running on my laptop, and which is more friendly and happy for everyone. Connect to 126.96.36.199 port 2424, login as a guest and follow the instructions to get a character. I'm still making little toys and whatnot for the rooms, but it's perfectly good as a hangout now, having private lounges for each of the downed servers, as well as a nice way of keeping track of who is who. Tada!
I'll be on as Sparks, of course.